Q-Tip anyone?

All you do is talk talk talk, when are you going to start listening. I tell you I hate that your friends are all in our business, and you turn around and tell them how I got made and said their in our business. I'm saying boo WTF, I love you but seriously your pissing me off so much, my soul wants to jump out and give you that Rashaad Evans special (UFC fighter for you sleepers). I've done all I can, you say when I get frustrated I need to say what's on my mind, wrll clearly You have selective hearing because im losing my voice with this shit... Yet you women wonder why men find comfort in other woman. Oh by all means feel free to disagree or believe it's for sex and because we are dogs, but I'll tell you this your WRONG!!! Men find comfort in other women because simply put ladies their not YOU!!! They dont do the daily nagging bit, or they fucked faces when he wants to do something without your involvement. That other women represents everything you use to be... A friend before a lover, that original bond, someone that cares just as much about the little shit you say as they hope you do the things they say. Now I'm sure like clockwork its happening right now. I can hear my female readers roaring "that's bullshit, why he need to seek out another women for comfort and conversation" <---- SMH if you laughing like "he right" I want you to go back and look at the first sentence of this post. You may not like all the shit I say, but I speak from what I have experienced, I'm not into sugar coating. Ohh and if your a new reader please don't call me bias, please don't think I mean for this post to be directed at ONLY women, cause MEN y'all know we converse with the boys about drama from side chick BS to baby mama auntie cousin sister drama... But hey ladies let's face it I'm a guy, so I have to tell it from my view, the only one I have!!!


- Patiently Waiting "Im Back"

We barely had any time

Everynight spent together, yet everyday it feels like we are growing miles apart, not our love but our friendship. What happen to the days when we would just get up and go, not a question asked nor a answer searched for, simply just GO. What happen to those days, have we lost the "like" in our relationship the joy of simply enjoying eachothers company, what? <---- I see this type of question arise often... So many couples become so content with who they are with, that the spark that brought them together in the first place begins to fade. Now by spark I'm damn sure not talking about the love, you can love someone and not like them just as you can like someone but not love them. I mean the spark, the attraction, the things that made your significant other a friend before a lover. That ability of becoming content in your relationship with everyday routine is what causes the lose of the "spark"... How many times have you heard them say "your not the same guy/girl you were when we first started dating, you use to be fun" smh CLASSIC unfortunately it's not uncommon nor is it easy to avoid becoming that person. We all need to realize that we tend to do more in the beginning of a relationship because we are still getting to know that person, still looking to impress. So naturally as time passes you may slightly simplify the things you do as a couple. But I will say this remember that the beginning is where the most memerable times spent together in a relationship are created... You may simplify what you do but don't ever expect them to forgot. Be spontaneous there is nothing wrong with doing something random just to show you haven't lost your interest. Pick up the phone make dinner reservations, or simply go down to the beach and walk alongside the water, anything will work... The simple things many times are the best things hands down. Relationships die unless we able to continue watching the flame burn!! DON'T LET IT DIE...