We barely had any time

Everynight spent together, yet everyday it feels like we are growing miles apart, not our love but our friendship. What happen to the days when we would just get up and go, not a question asked nor a answer searched for, simply just GO. What happen to those days, have we lost the "like" in our relationship the joy of simply enjoying eachothers company, what? <---- I see this type of question arise often... So many couples become so content with who they are with, that the spark that brought them together in the first place begins to fade. Now by spark I'm damn sure not talking about the love, you can love someone and not like them just as you can like someone but not love them. I mean the spark, the attraction, the things that made your significant other a friend before a lover. That ability of becoming content in your relationship with everyday routine is what causes the lose of the "spark"... How many times have you heard them say "your not the same guy/girl you were when we first started dating, you use to be fun" smh CLASSIC unfortunately it's not uncommon nor is it easy to avoid becoming that person. We all need to realize that we tend to do more in the beginning of a relationship because we are still getting to know that person, still looking to impress. So naturally as time passes you may slightly simplify the things you do as a couple. But I will say this remember that the beginning is where the most memerable times spent together in a relationship are created... You may simplify what you do but don't ever expect them to forgot. Be spontaneous there is nothing wrong with doing something random just to show you haven't lost your interest. Pick up the phone make dinner reservations, or simply go down to the beach and walk alongside the water, anything will work... The simple things many times are the best things hands down. Relationships die unless we able to continue watching the flame burn!! DON'T LET IT DIE...