Waiting for Love

The story of our lives... Waiting for love, i'm sure I'm not the only one to ask "does true love really exist?". I think the answer is actually a little more simple than we may think... True love exist only if you open your heart and accept the right one. But then that brings about the next question, "how do you know they are the right one?". Now that, that question right there is not as easy to answer. I can say it like this I don't believe there is one true love, on the contrary I believe there are many. The person in which you believe to be the one, will be the one that best suits your needs or whom you feel is most compatible with YOU. There is no ONE perfect person, no man nor woman is "perfect" we are all simply human, but there are those whom we feel are "perfect" for us. Every man and every woman is going to have problems or flaws, it's up to us to find the one with the least that we can most tolerate. I advise you if your truly looking for someone, that "one" true love DON'T... We don't find love, love finds us, and it always does so when we least expect it. On another note if love does find you don't be the person that rushes things the last thing you wanna do is wait for love, only to scare love away. Life, Love, and Harmony are magical for those who wait... Let life develope we don't have all the time in the world, but we do have just enough to where we don't have to make ill advised decisions. That doesn't mean we won't make mistakes lol that alone is inevitable, our selfless mistakes are what build our characters. Believe it or not relationships are built on mistakes they are what make relationships stronger, they allow us to know if we can make it through the hard times not just cruise through the good ones. They allow us to be in touch with reality and not base our relationship on fantasy Snow White ass dreams. Life is difficult and with that so is love, so if you get that opportunity to share your love with someone you believe in and believes in you, DON'T BLOW IT. There are many people out there to love, but only a few will truly love you back. Ladies a "GOOD" man is hard to find, don't blow it with your insecurities, I know a lot of dogs have messed I up for the good ones remaining... But you have to find a way to LET YOUR PAST BE YOUR PAST... Don't bring the drama and doubts from your last relationship into your new one, life is about taking risk. In order to love you have to take the chance you may be hurt... No one ever really gets it right on the first try. Like I said no one is perfect, but there is someone that's perfect for you.


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Detached from the Needy Emotionless

As the days go by each person gets a little older... For me, with that so do emotions. After a certain amount of time passes you learn to separate yourself from the emotions of others, you stop caring what the next has to say. Well I take that back some do, others live for the compliment of the next, and die by the put down of the present. Sadly I call those individuals the weak, those whom have yet to adapt to todays society. Everyone has a friend or three that are just hands down fucking NEEDY... Like everytime you turn around that hoe can't be alone always wanting something. Me personally I laugh like "what did you do before you had a cellphone, or a computer and still had no car," my guess you banged your head against handrails enjoying the pain fascinated by the blood. Needless to say NEEDY hoes can be both men and women, but tend to be women more than they do men... Simply because women, not all but a vast majority act like down right ATTENTION WHORES. Tell me there is no truth to that statement and I will officially make this my last post... PAUSE 4 RESPONSES... Yeah I didn't think so, the needy are irrelevant if you starve those hoes they will learn, if you continue to feed the urge you come to a Octo Mom sized brick wall. The only thing I feed NEEDY muhfuccas is my emotionless DICK oops did I say that, ohh wait this is my blog. From Myspace hoes to Twitter hoes the NEEDY will always be there... Time to weed these simpleton chimps the fuck out. OFFENDED by this post is anyway hit me on Twitter with a "I'm offended" comment @wizzbarz I will respond accordingly... Don't know wizz send the tweet and find out!!! Have a great day lmao

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"Tis the Season"

I hate to say it but it seems its the season for how do you say, "Break Up's" real talk beware the bug is in the air. It almost makes you think a little deeper, with the timing of the break up is it the recession, or is it planned out due to the fact that Christmas is right around the corner. I think about these kinds of things maybe thats just the asshole in me, but then again maybe there is some real truth to it. Whatever the case may be this bug is definitely going around, relationships are dropping faster than J Lo at the AMA's. I know that last comment was wrong but shit its the truth something is going on, take a minute and ask yourself how many of your friends have dropped thier other half these last few months, or are on the verdge of doing so. i mean c'mon son this use to be a season of togetherness, both family wise and relationship wise but i cant help but say it TIMES ARE CHANGING. More and more people are falling out of love and im not talking those fake ass Celebrity bullshit relationships, lowkey thats all publicity but thats another post another time. But seriously im talking about the people you see everyday, that relationship that you tell yourself "they always argue but even through it they look so in love". Well I bet you never thought it would come to a end did you. I know i was one of those people saying "they always argue but it makes making up that much better" smh i was wrong too, PERSONALLY i think its Wendy Williams putting the bug in everybody ear that nigga is the problem for everything. No but in all seriousness if you ask me relationships are failing because we as a people are falling further and further away from the state of reasoning. We are not able to talk about the problems we have so we rush our final judgement before we really know what it is we wanna do. We make mistakes as humans but have almost completely gotten to the point where we truly dont feel there is anything we have done wrong. Our imperfections make us human, but our will to forgive allows us to love... somewhere down the line we need to remember no love not worth working for is worth having, every relationship has their up and down... NO GRUDGE HELD IS WORTH LOSING THE ONE YOU LOVE, LIVE, LEARN, FORGIVE ...NO ONE EVER SAID FORGET