We barely had any time

Everynight spent together, yet everyday it feels like we are growing miles apart, not our love but our friendship. What happen to the days when we would just get up and go, not a question asked nor a answer searched for, simply just GO. What happen to those days, have we lost the "like" in our relationship the joy of simply enjoying eachothers company, what? <---- I see this type of question arise often... So many couples become so content with who they are with, that the spark that brought them together in the first place begins to fade. Now by spark I'm damn sure not talking about the love, you can love someone and not like them just as you can like someone but not love them. I mean the spark, the attraction, the things that made your significant other a friend before a lover. That ability of becoming content in your relationship with everyday routine is what causes the lose of the "spark"... How many times have you heard them say "your not the same guy/girl you were when we first started dating, you use to be fun" smh CLASSIC unfortunately it's not uncommon nor is it easy to avoid becoming that person. We all need to realize that we tend to do more in the beginning of a relationship because we are still getting to know that person, still looking to impress. So naturally as time passes you may slightly simplify the things you do as a couple. But I will say this remember that the beginning is where the most memerable times spent together in a relationship are created... You may simplify what you do but don't ever expect them to forgot. Be spontaneous there is nothing wrong with doing something random just to show you haven't lost your interest. Pick up the phone make dinner reservations, or simply go down to the beach and walk alongside the water, anything will work... The simple things many times are the best things hands down. Relationships die unless we able to continue watching the flame burn!! DON'T LET IT DIE...

Ol' Independent ass

The emotions of the female mind, body, and heart run similar to that of a roller coaster, but for a consistant 24hrs a day, 365 days of the year. The female emotions are not, nor will they ever be predictable. Women are creatures unlike any other, yes they eat, they shit rarely with us around lol but they do it nontheless. And they damn sure sleep like most everyone of us but their individual strength and will to be unique is like no other. Women are single handedly the most complex species known to man, and none more complex than a independent woman. Now I have to admit men typically don't like a difficult woman but it's mainly due to the fact that we just want to be in control 90% of the time. But for the most part a woman with her head on straight, with goals and ambitions will in our eyes outshine whatever that level of difficulty is. Ladies please understand this, nothing and I mean nothing is more sexy than your mind. Be sure of this looks will fade, the body will slowly begin to sag and wrinkle from what it once was, but as they say "the mind is always the last to go". A beautiful mind goes a long way, but please don't mak the mistake and belittle the one you love behind it. It's fine to be smart and independent, but there is a fine line between being independent and pushing everyone away because you feel you don't need them. Common mistake from ladies, many of you women feel men have no feelings nor do they care about how you see them... YOUR WRONG men like to feel they are wanted just as much as women do, we may not show it but trust we like to know that our significant other needs us. We are a lot more simple than what meets the eye what can I say we are men, we are suppose to be the strong one in the relationship or atleast that's the stereotype... And don't say that's not true because when we show signs of not being the strong one women never hesitate to put it clear line of sight how weak we are. Men do have feelings ladies don't forget that no matter how much a man tries to act like he's untouchable!!! After all chances are he's just trying to be an Ol' independent ass dude to match his Ol' independent ass woman. PAY ATTENTION... It's always more to it than what meets the eye!!!

I gotta ask this, if your reading this hit me on Twitter with your answer!!! "I've learned a lot of times a independent woman for some reason comes with a lot of PRIDE... Why is that?" GET AT ME WITH RESPONSES you know where I be, same place, same name WIZZ holla at me

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Flawed Introduction

My brother EL said it best, "becareful what you introduce into your relationship because, once you make the mistake and call someone a BITCH, they will forever identify themselves as one through your eyes". I had to add that because it's the realest thing present in our generation today. The respect factor that our parents and grandparents had in their day has been lost in times of today's children of tomorrow. The word "Bitch" today is almost used as if it was a damn vowel. Now before y'all bash me let me be honest, I myself use the word like it's a frequent luxury but in no way do I feel it's right. I honestly have no idea why I say it, so I guess that's why I'm writing this now, in order to change there has to be a moment where you are willing to identify the problem and commence the change. For me that time is now, this is that moment. I say this directly to the males... Stop and think about what it is you are doing, what you are saying to the person you find as a friend, lover, or even family member. Now think down the line, when the next man feels he can call your daughter a "Bitch" or maybe your wife... Is it ok for them like you feel it is for you? Probably land yourself in jail behind someone finding the balls to say it huh? Now you can take it how you want it but on the contrary to what most dipshit people say. I do believe What you do today will and probably has already had or is currently changing your tomorrow. Everyone uses that horrible ass cliché "Do on to others as you would have them do on to you" smh I say SCREW that it's a lot of sick people out there and just keeping it 100 i'm not into all the shit their into. So I say this... "Treat each person with respect atleast give them a chance to mess up before you judge them. Everyone is human and each and everyone of us is a different degree of stupid". A little time is all we need unfortunately some more than others. If your girl/man name is _______ use it don't make the mistake of using an explicit to fill that blank... We need a dose of the past and I'm not talking about slave days... Treat your loved one with respect, otherwise they may not be there the next tine you really need them!!!


- Only the man can change the man, you are all just spectators