Q-Tip anyone?

All you do is talk talk talk, when are you going to start listening. I tell you I hate that your friends are all in our business, and you turn around and tell them how I got made and said their in our business. I'm saying boo WTF, I love you but seriously your pissing me off so much, my soul wants to jump out and give you that Rashaad Evans special (UFC fighter for you sleepers). I've done all I can, you say when I get frustrated I need to say what's on my mind, wrll clearly You have selective hearing because im losing my voice with this shit... Yet you women wonder why men find comfort in other woman. Oh by all means feel free to disagree or believe it's for sex and because we are dogs, but I'll tell you this your WRONG!!! Men find comfort in other women because simply put ladies their not YOU!!! They dont do the daily nagging bit, or they fucked faces when he wants to do something without your involvement. That other women represents everything you use to be... A friend before a lover, that original bond, someone that cares just as much about the little shit you say as they hope you do the things they say. Now I'm sure like clockwork its happening right now. I can hear my female readers roaring "that's bullshit, why he need to seek out another women for comfort and conversation" <---- SMH if you laughing like "he right" I want you to go back and look at the first sentence of this post. You may not like all the shit I say, but I speak from what I have experienced, I'm not into sugar coating. Ohh and if your a new reader please don't call me bias, please don't think I mean for this post to be directed at ONLY women, cause MEN y'all know we converse with the boys about drama from side chick BS to baby mama auntie cousin sister drama... But hey ladies let's face it I'm a guy, so I have to tell it from my view, the only one I have!!!


- Patiently Waiting "Im Back"

We barely had any time

Everynight spent together, yet everyday it feels like we are growing miles apart, not our love but our friendship. What happen to the days when we would just get up and go, not a question asked nor a answer searched for, simply just GO. What happen to those days, have we lost the "like" in our relationship the joy of simply enjoying eachothers company, what? <---- I see this type of question arise often... So many couples become so content with who they are with, that the spark that brought them together in the first place begins to fade. Now by spark I'm damn sure not talking about the love, you can love someone and not like them just as you can like someone but not love them. I mean the spark, the attraction, the things that made your significant other a friend before a lover. That ability of becoming content in your relationship with everyday routine is what causes the lose of the "spark"... How many times have you heard them say "your not the same guy/girl you were when we first started dating, you use to be fun" smh CLASSIC unfortunately it's not uncommon nor is it easy to avoid becoming that person. We all need to realize that we tend to do more in the beginning of a relationship because we are still getting to know that person, still looking to impress. So naturally as time passes you may slightly simplify the things you do as a couple. But I will say this remember that the beginning is where the most memerable times spent together in a relationship are created... You may simplify what you do but don't ever expect them to forgot. Be spontaneous there is nothing wrong with doing something random just to show you haven't lost your interest. Pick up the phone make dinner reservations, or simply go down to the beach and walk alongside the water, anything will work... The simple things many times are the best things hands down. Relationships die unless we able to continue watching the flame burn!! DON'T LET IT DIE...

Ol' Independent ass

The emotions of the female mind, body, and heart run similar to that of a roller coaster, but for a consistant 24hrs a day, 365 days of the year. The female emotions are not, nor will they ever be predictable. Women are creatures unlike any other, yes they eat, they shit rarely with us around lol but they do it nontheless. And they damn sure sleep like most everyone of us but their individual strength and will to be unique is like no other. Women are single handedly the most complex species known to man, and none more complex than a independent woman. Now I have to admit men typically don't like a difficult woman but it's mainly due to the fact that we just want to be in control 90% of the time. But for the most part a woman with her head on straight, with goals and ambitions will in our eyes outshine whatever that level of difficulty is. Ladies please understand this, nothing and I mean nothing is more sexy than your mind. Be sure of this looks will fade, the body will slowly begin to sag and wrinkle from what it once was, but as they say "the mind is always the last to go". A beautiful mind goes a long way, but please don't mak the mistake and belittle the one you love behind it. It's fine to be smart and independent, but there is a fine line between being independent and pushing everyone away because you feel you don't need them. Common mistake from ladies, many of you women feel men have no feelings nor do they care about how you see them... YOUR WRONG men like to feel they are wanted just as much as women do, we may not show it but trust we like to know that our significant other needs us. We are a lot more simple than what meets the eye what can I say we are men, we are suppose to be the strong one in the relationship or atleast that's the stereotype... And don't say that's not true because when we show signs of not being the strong one women never hesitate to put it clear line of sight how weak we are. Men do have feelings ladies don't forget that no matter how much a man tries to act like he's untouchable!!! After all chances are he's just trying to be an Ol' independent ass dude to match his Ol' independent ass woman. PAY ATTENTION... It's always more to it than what meets the eye!!!

I gotta ask this, if your reading this hit me on Twitter with your answer!!! "I've learned a lot of times a independent woman for some reason comes with a lot of PRIDE... Why is that?" GET AT ME WITH RESPONSES you know where I be, same place, same name WIZZ holla at me

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Flawed Introduction

My brother EL said it best, "becareful what you introduce into your relationship because, once you make the mistake and call someone a BITCH, they will forever identify themselves as one through your eyes". I had to add that because it's the realest thing present in our generation today. The respect factor that our parents and grandparents had in their day has been lost in times of today's children of tomorrow. The word "Bitch" today is almost used as if it was a damn vowel. Now before y'all bash me let me be honest, I myself use the word like it's a frequent luxury but in no way do I feel it's right. I honestly have no idea why I say it, so I guess that's why I'm writing this now, in order to change there has to be a moment where you are willing to identify the problem and commence the change. For me that time is now, this is that moment. I say this directly to the males... Stop and think about what it is you are doing, what you are saying to the person you find as a friend, lover, or even family member. Now think down the line, when the next man feels he can call your daughter a "Bitch" or maybe your wife... Is it ok for them like you feel it is for you? Probably land yourself in jail behind someone finding the balls to say it huh? Now you can take it how you want it but on the contrary to what most dipshit people say. I do believe What you do today will and probably has already had or is currently changing your tomorrow. Everyone uses that horrible ass cliché "Do on to others as you would have them do on to you" smh I say SCREW that it's a lot of sick people out there and just keeping it 100 i'm not into all the shit their into. So I say this... "Treat each person with respect atleast give them a chance to mess up before you judge them. Everyone is human and each and everyone of us is a different degree of stupid". A little time is all we need unfortunately some more than others. If your girl/man name is _______ use it don't make the mistake of using an explicit to fill that blank... We need a dose of the past and I'm not talking about slave days... Treat your loved one with respect, otherwise they may not be there the next tine you really need them!!!


- Only the man can change the man, you are all just spectators

Are we done boo?

When you find yourself asking "is this it, is this the moment when we call it a quits are we done have we reached the end of the road". Then you know the stress level has hit maximum on not only you, but your partner as well. See now the problem with that is it's almost like it becomes a game, you begin to wonder which one of you is going to say it out loud. I mean isn't that what each and every individual in a struggling relationship really waits for, that confirmation that things are DONE...OVER!!! But see I believe that the reason people wait for it from the other rather then be bold and say it themselves, is because deep down we all doubt the heart. I mean seriously think about it we all say "trust your heart" but can we really trust it with choice of this magnitude. Stop and think for a second, for most of us when we get made the heart says "fuck them" but once we calm down that same heart, towards that same person says "I love them". I don't know about yours but my heart is unstable, I trust it but at the same time I trust the information I have gathered and the possiblity of human error more. I'm sure the confusion of what I said has had ample amount of time to set in, so let me put things like this... When you get to that point of "is this it, are we ready to give up everything we have built" look back to the beginning think about the love you once felt, and if things are blurry ask yourself is the future more clear with or without that person. Nothing comes easy, love and relationships damn sure don't come easy... But in the end can either of you truly say it's not worth it. LOVE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!!! So do what you have to do to make the best of it.

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Location:Shuttle Time

Blessings from above

Love without a test is not love at all, it's a temporary illusion. It is a combination of the eyes and the body giving the heart what it believes it wants. If you yourself are in one if those relationships that has gone untested, my honest opinion is... That's a fantasy so ummm "wake the hell up." Fantasy land relationships have no place in reality, you know real people world. That place we call Earth where stuff goes wrong left and right, where women and men cheat because they can. The place where nothing in life not even your next breath is guaranteed. This place we call home is reality, and in reality no real relationship goes untested. It's up to those involved in that relationship to come out on top, it's up to them to weigh their options. For each individual to attempt to see the greater good in the other, no one is perfect so think before you judge someone and their wrong doings. IS IT WORTH IT?Charish what you have, cause if they say they love you as much as you say you do them, see it as a blessing from above.

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Here we go again

My anger is peaking, everynight I attempt to head into a deep sleep hoping tomorrow I will wake up and not worry about the problems of the previous day. Yet everyday I am wrong, I wake up and the day starts right. Hugs and kisses are plenty, but for some reason lately everyday there is one if not five things that grasp my attention and turn me in the direction of angry. It's like the "Incredible Hulk" effect... Slowly but surely little things continue to happen and I suppress the anger, but eventually in my head i just get fed up. The Pride level is at a all time high, and seriously I can't take it the wall was fine at first but now it's getting played out. Two years in and still the drama, the need to be in control, the self domination it all kills me. I'm a very aggressive individual and with her I choose not to be. I listen to the constant under the breathe mumbles of bullshit but I let it slide, but for how long. How long before I yell back and show my built up anger, how long before I make her cry, how long. I guess you could say for as long as it takes for me to stop loving her. For I have found ones anger needs to be channeled into ways other than rage. You don't want to hurt the ones you love physically nor with your words. So until I or rather you are calm enough to speak, just don't say anything sometimes no action is the best action.


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Location:10:26 Down Stairs

Tempation = ???

Temptation.... for many women that word strikes fear in their heart whenever surrounding their man in any way. And seriously from a man point of view, it should temptation is everywhere, women nowadays do not have the same morals that women of "yesterday" had. Honestly that's not a knock on women, that is just pure honesty fact even If you will have it. Temptation lurks at every corner, can a woman truly get mad at a man for a sudden lapse, and in reverse can a man really get mad at a woman. I don't believe a mistake made is a man or woman, that doesn't want to be in a relationship, and I damn sure don't believe in that "he just wants the best of both worlds" bullshit. Truth is men are damn sure not perfect and neither are women, but seriously some situations we men truly believe we can handle, but we fail and fail miserably. I have come to the conclusion that temptation is a bitch LITERALLY... In the dictionary the definition should be... Jessica, Marissa, Cindy, Tiffany, Brittney.... Y'all get the picture!!! Life unfotunately for the men that are not single seems to be overflowed with more women then men. So if temptation sneaks up on you run, if she chases you, fall and cry like a bitch!!!

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Back to the basics

Just take her by the hand, and simply say "I love you" no boo no girl, none of that just "I love you". Take time to just get back to the basics, love is short if the bond is broken. Approach your relationship like you should your life, head on. No if, ands or buts about it. Each relationship is different but we all want that common goal of happiness at least as individuals if not as a couple!!! Speak your heart, don't for one second think that you knowing that you love them is enough.... SHOW THEM "when is the last time you said I love you" Happy Valentines Day!!!

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