Q-Tip anyone?

All you do is talk talk talk, when are you going to start listening. I tell you I hate that your friends are all in our business, and you turn around and tell them how I got made and said their in our business. I'm saying boo WTF, I love you but seriously your pissing me off so much, my soul wants to jump out and give you that Rashaad Evans special (UFC fighter for you sleepers). I've done all I can, you say when I get frustrated I need to say what's on my mind, wrll clearly You have selective hearing because im losing my voice with this shit... Yet you women wonder why men find comfort in other woman. Oh by all means feel free to disagree or believe it's for sex and because we are dogs, but I'll tell you this your WRONG!!! Men find comfort in other women because simply put ladies their not YOU!!! They dont do the daily nagging bit, or they fucked faces when he wants to do something without your involvement. That other women represents everything you use to be... A friend before a lover, that original bond, someone that cares just as much about the little shit you say as they hope you do the things they say. Now I'm sure like clockwork its happening right now. I can hear my female readers roaring "that's bullshit, why he need to seek out another women for comfort and conversation" <---- SMH if you laughing like "he right" I want you to go back and look at the first sentence of this post. You may not like all the shit I say, but I speak from what I have experienced, I'm not into sugar coating. Ohh and if your a new reader please don't call me bias, please don't think I mean for this post to be directed at ONLY women, cause MEN y'all know we converse with the boys about drama from side chick BS to baby mama auntie cousin sister drama... But hey ladies let's face it I'm a guy, so I have to tell it from my view, the only one I have!!!


- Patiently Waiting "Im Back"

We barely had any time

Everynight spent together, yet everyday it feels like we are growing miles apart, not our love but our friendship. What happen to the days when we would just get up and go, not a question asked nor a answer searched for, simply just GO. What happen to those days, have we lost the "like" in our relationship the joy of simply enjoying eachothers company, what? <---- I see this type of question arise often... So many couples become so content with who they are with, that the spark that brought them together in the first place begins to fade. Now by spark I'm damn sure not talking about the love, you can love someone and not like them just as you can like someone but not love them. I mean the spark, the attraction, the things that made your significant other a friend before a lover. That ability of becoming content in your relationship with everyday routine is what causes the lose of the "spark"... How many times have you heard them say "your not the same guy/girl you were when we first started dating, you use to be fun" smh CLASSIC unfortunately it's not uncommon nor is it easy to avoid becoming that person. We all need to realize that we tend to do more in the beginning of a relationship because we are still getting to know that person, still looking to impress. So naturally as time passes you may slightly simplify the things you do as a couple. But I will say this remember that the beginning is where the most memerable times spent together in a relationship are created... You may simplify what you do but don't ever expect them to forgot. Be spontaneous there is nothing wrong with doing something random just to show you haven't lost your interest. Pick up the phone make dinner reservations, or simply go down to the beach and walk alongside the water, anything will work... The simple things many times are the best things hands down. Relationships die unless we able to continue watching the flame burn!! DON'T LET IT DIE...

Ol' Independent ass

The emotions of the female mind, body, and heart run similar to that of a roller coaster, but for a consistant 24hrs a day, 365 days of the year. The female emotions are not, nor will they ever be predictable. Women are creatures unlike any other, yes they eat, they shit rarely with us around lol but they do it nontheless. And they damn sure sleep like most everyone of us but their individual strength and will to be unique is like no other. Women are single handedly the most complex species known to man, and none more complex than a independent woman. Now I have to admit men typically don't like a difficult woman but it's mainly due to the fact that we just want to be in control 90% of the time. But for the most part a woman with her head on straight, with goals and ambitions will in our eyes outshine whatever that level of difficulty is. Ladies please understand this, nothing and I mean nothing is more sexy than your mind. Be sure of this looks will fade, the body will slowly begin to sag and wrinkle from what it once was, but as they say "the mind is always the last to go". A beautiful mind goes a long way, but please don't mak the mistake and belittle the one you love behind it. It's fine to be smart and independent, but there is a fine line between being independent and pushing everyone away because you feel you don't need them. Common mistake from ladies, many of you women feel men have no feelings nor do they care about how you see them... YOUR WRONG men like to feel they are wanted just as much as women do, we may not show it but trust we like to know that our significant other needs us. We are a lot more simple than what meets the eye what can I say we are men, we are suppose to be the strong one in the relationship or atleast that's the stereotype... And don't say that's not true because when we show signs of not being the strong one women never hesitate to put it clear line of sight how weak we are. Men do have feelings ladies don't forget that no matter how much a man tries to act like he's untouchable!!! After all chances are he's just trying to be an Ol' independent ass dude to match his Ol' independent ass woman. PAY ATTENTION... It's always more to it than what meets the eye!!!

I gotta ask this, if your reading this hit me on Twitter with your answer!!! "I've learned a lot of times a independent woman for some reason comes with a lot of PRIDE... Why is that?" GET AT ME WITH RESPONSES you know where I be, same place, same name WIZZ holla at me

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Flawed Introduction

My brother EL said it best, "becareful what you introduce into your relationship because, once you make the mistake and call someone a BITCH, they will forever identify themselves as one through your eyes". I had to add that because it's the realest thing present in our generation today. The respect factor that our parents and grandparents had in their day has been lost in times of today's children of tomorrow. The word "Bitch" today is almost used as if it was a damn vowel. Now before y'all bash me let me be honest, I myself use the word like it's a frequent luxury but in no way do I feel it's right. I honestly have no idea why I say it, so I guess that's why I'm writing this now, in order to change there has to be a moment where you are willing to identify the problem and commence the change. For me that time is now, this is that moment. I say this directly to the males... Stop and think about what it is you are doing, what you are saying to the person you find as a friend, lover, or even family member. Now think down the line, when the next man feels he can call your daughter a "Bitch" or maybe your wife... Is it ok for them like you feel it is for you? Probably land yourself in jail behind someone finding the balls to say it huh? Now you can take it how you want it but on the contrary to what most dipshit people say. I do believe What you do today will and probably has already had or is currently changing your tomorrow. Everyone uses that horrible ass cliché "Do on to others as you would have them do on to you" smh I say SCREW that it's a lot of sick people out there and just keeping it 100 i'm not into all the shit their into. So I say this... "Treat each person with respect atleast give them a chance to mess up before you judge them. Everyone is human and each and everyone of us is a different degree of stupid". A little time is all we need unfortunately some more than others. If your girl/man name is _______ use it don't make the mistake of using an explicit to fill that blank... We need a dose of the past and I'm not talking about slave days... Treat your loved one with respect, otherwise they may not be there the next tine you really need them!!!


- Only the man can change the man, you are all just spectators

Are we done boo?

When you find yourself asking "is this it, is this the moment when we call it a quits are we done have we reached the end of the road". Then you know the stress level has hit maximum on not only you, but your partner as well. See now the problem with that is it's almost like it becomes a game, you begin to wonder which one of you is going to say it out loud. I mean isn't that what each and every individual in a struggling relationship really waits for, that confirmation that things are DONE...OVER!!! But see I believe that the reason people wait for it from the other rather then be bold and say it themselves, is because deep down we all doubt the heart. I mean seriously think about it we all say "trust your heart" but can we really trust it with choice of this magnitude. Stop and think for a second, for most of us when we get made the heart says "fuck them" but once we calm down that same heart, towards that same person says "I love them". I don't know about yours but my heart is unstable, I trust it but at the same time I trust the information I have gathered and the possiblity of human error more. I'm sure the confusion of what I said has had ample amount of time to set in, so let me put things like this... When you get to that point of "is this it, are we ready to give up everything we have built" look back to the beginning think about the love you once felt, and if things are blurry ask yourself is the future more clear with or without that person. Nothing comes easy, love and relationships damn sure don't come easy... But in the end can either of you truly say it's not worth it. LOVE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!!! So do what you have to do to make the best of it.

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Blessings from above

Love without a test is not love at all, it's a temporary illusion. It is a combination of the eyes and the body giving the heart what it believes it wants. If you yourself are in one if those relationships that has gone untested, my honest opinion is... That's a fantasy so ummm "wake the hell up." Fantasy land relationships have no place in reality, you know real people world. That place we call Earth where stuff goes wrong left and right, where women and men cheat because they can. The place where nothing in life not even your next breath is guaranteed. This place we call home is reality, and in reality no real relationship goes untested. It's up to those involved in that relationship to come out on top, it's up to them to weigh their options. For each individual to attempt to see the greater good in the other, no one is perfect so think before you judge someone and their wrong doings. IS IT WORTH IT?Charish what you have, cause if they say they love you as much as you say you do them, see it as a blessing from above.

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Here we go again

My anger is peaking, everynight I attempt to head into a deep sleep hoping tomorrow I will wake up and not worry about the problems of the previous day. Yet everyday I am wrong, I wake up and the day starts right. Hugs and kisses are plenty, but for some reason lately everyday there is one if not five things that grasp my attention and turn me in the direction of angry. It's like the "Incredible Hulk" effect... Slowly but surely little things continue to happen and I suppress the anger, but eventually in my head i just get fed up. The Pride level is at a all time high, and seriously I can't take it the wall was fine at first but now it's getting played out. Two years in and still the drama, the need to be in control, the self domination it all kills me. I'm a very aggressive individual and with her I choose not to be. I listen to the constant under the breathe mumbles of bullshit but I let it slide, but for how long. How long before I yell back and show my built up anger, how long before I make her cry, how long. I guess you could say for as long as it takes for me to stop loving her. For I have found ones anger needs to be channeled into ways other than rage. You don't want to hurt the ones you love physically nor with your words. So until I or rather you are calm enough to speak, just don't say anything sometimes no action is the best action.


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Tempation = ???

Temptation.... for many women that word strikes fear in their heart whenever surrounding their man in any way. And seriously from a man point of view, it should temptation is everywhere, women nowadays do not have the same morals that women of "yesterday" had. Honestly that's not a knock on women, that is just pure honesty fact even If you will have it. Temptation lurks at every corner, can a woman truly get mad at a man for a sudden lapse, and in reverse can a man really get mad at a woman. I don't believe a mistake made is a man or woman, that doesn't want to be in a relationship, and I damn sure don't believe in that "he just wants the best of both worlds" bullshit. Truth is men are damn sure not perfect and neither are women, but seriously some situations we men truly believe we can handle, but we fail and fail miserably. I have come to the conclusion that temptation is a bitch LITERALLY... In the dictionary the definition should be... Jessica, Marissa, Cindy, Tiffany, Brittney.... Y'all get the picture!!! Life unfotunately for the men that are not single seems to be overflowed with more women then men. So if temptation sneaks up on you run, if she chases you, fall and cry like a bitch!!!

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Back to the basics

Just take her by the hand, and simply say "I love you" no boo no girl, none of that just "I love you". Take time to just get back to the basics, love is short if the bond is broken. Approach your relationship like you should your life, head on. No if, ands or buts about it. Each relationship is different but we all want that common goal of happiness at least as individuals if not as a couple!!! Speak your heart, don't for one second think that you knowing that you love them is enough.... SHOW THEM "when is the last time you said I love you" Happy Valentines Day!!!

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Go on.... GET!!!

I believe Robin Thicke said it best, "it's your body we will go hard as you want to, give you sex therapy" in every single way that should be embraced. Too many times do we fail to please our significant other the way they should be pleased. And how exactly should we please them?... You would love to hear that huh? Well unfortunately every man and every woman is different. But the common mistake we as men make is we tend to think we are king of the jungle. Don't get me wrong women like when a man takes control, but let's be honest we don't know every trick in the book. LEt this be known there is nothing wrong with asking how the other likes it, hell some people need those instructions LADIES and GENTLEMEN everyone has had a WTF sexual experience. Funny thing is even if you think your always on top of your game it's possible you yourself were someone "WTF is he/she doing" experience. Don't wanna give sex tips, but it's the holiday so if you do anything else right to your own knowledge atleast try this. First and foremost listen to the other person and listen carefully, women like to know you care about what comes out, not just what you can put in. Secondly think before you just do something you saw on a movie or read in a book. Remember every girl is different and yours just might kick your ass for trying some outrageous shit you saw a dude do. Third be graceful a woman is exactly that a woman, she's not some toy you play with there are no knobs to twist THINK BEFORE YOU DO!!! And last bu no least no matter what it is you present in the bedroom be confident... Don't be a mandingle airhead, but be confident in every move you make, there's nothing worst than a woman feeling out the BITCH in you. With these tips I guarantee nothing, for like I said in the beginning everyone is different, but I can tell you it's a start if nothing else. Be safe, and have a Happy Holidays!!! GO ON GET

-- Learned a lot, I'm no expert but I am WIZZ

Faith in "us"

Fascinated by the illusion of you and I being together forever. Arguments steady arising, yet I for some reason can't see past the love I have for you.
Clearly I'm blind for only a blind person would stay and put up with the bullshit from a demon such as yourself. Yeah that's it I'm blind, or am I I'm so confused I wanna scream. You know what, maybe I stay because deep down inside I know the good out weighs the bad. Whatever it is i can't leave, trust me I've tried if I could I would. Because sometimes, just sometimes you drive me to the "I wanna hide your body where no one will ever find it" mode. But of course who does that hurt, no one but, yeah you said it "me" everything hurts me but you act like you don't see that. You act like I'm made of stone, you act like I don't have feelings like the shit you do will bounce off of me. Well you know what I'm not fucking superman BITCH... wait I didn't mean that, I didn't mean to call you out of your name I LOVE YOU. it's just sometimes, just sometimes I don't know what to do, sometimes I feel like I'm at this alone. Everyday I look for some reason to stay and everyday I receive it, but sometimes just sometimes I doubt my signs. Are you the "one" is there a one... I feel like this is everything I've been waiting for a "us," then other times I feel like it's a mistake. You always say you don't need me, "I was fine before you and will continue to be after you". Let me just say this, that hurts me personally I was fine before you as well, but even with our ups and downs I feel like I'm better with you and now I can't see me without you, I can't pitcure it ever not being an "us". My heart is never confused I come back because beyond the drama I see a bright future, a future that consist of "us". It takes two to play this game and let me tell you what a wise friend said "there are no rules to this game called love." I HAVE FAITH IN "US" CAN YOU SAY THE SAME....

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Waiting for Love

The story of our lives... Waiting for love, i'm sure I'm not the only one to ask "does true love really exist?". I think the answer is actually a little more simple than we may think... True love exist only if you open your heart and accept the right one. But then that brings about the next question, "how do you know they are the right one?". Now that, that question right there is not as easy to answer. I can say it like this I don't believe there is one true love, on the contrary I believe there are many. The person in which you believe to be the one, will be the one that best suits your needs or whom you feel is most compatible with YOU. There is no ONE perfect person, no man nor woman is "perfect" we are all simply human, but there are those whom we feel are "perfect" for us. Every man and every woman is going to have problems or flaws, it's up to us to find the one with the least that we can most tolerate. I advise you if your truly looking for someone, that "one" true love DON'T... We don't find love, love finds us, and it always does so when we least expect it. On another note if love does find you don't be the person that rushes things the last thing you wanna do is wait for love, only to scare love away. Life, Love, and Harmony are magical for those who wait... Let life develope we don't have all the time in the world, but we do have just enough to where we don't have to make ill advised decisions. That doesn't mean we won't make mistakes lol that alone is inevitable, our selfless mistakes are what build our characters. Believe it or not relationships are built on mistakes they are what make relationships stronger, they allow us to know if we can make it through the hard times not just cruise through the good ones. They allow us to be in touch with reality and not base our relationship on fantasy Snow White ass dreams. Life is difficult and with that so is love, so if you get that opportunity to share your love with someone you believe in and believes in you, DON'T BLOW IT. There are many people out there to love, but only a few will truly love you back. Ladies a "GOOD" man is hard to find, don't blow it with your insecurities, I know a lot of dogs have messed I up for the good ones remaining... But you have to find a way to LET YOUR PAST BE YOUR PAST... Don't bring the drama and doubts from your last relationship into your new one, life is about taking risk. In order to love you have to take the chance you may be hurt... No one ever really gets it right on the first try. Like I said no one is perfect, but there is someone that's perfect for you.


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Detached from the Needy Emotionless

As the days go by each person gets a little older... For me, with that so do emotions. After a certain amount of time passes you learn to separate yourself from the emotions of others, you stop caring what the next has to say. Well I take that back some do, others live for the compliment of the next, and die by the put down of the present. Sadly I call those individuals the weak, those whom have yet to adapt to todays society. Everyone has a friend or three that are just hands down fucking NEEDY... Like everytime you turn around that hoe can't be alone always wanting something. Me personally I laugh like "what did you do before you had a cellphone, or a computer and still had no car," my guess you banged your head against handrails enjoying the pain fascinated by the blood. Needless to say NEEDY hoes can be both men and women, but tend to be women more than they do men... Simply because women, not all but a vast majority act like down right ATTENTION WHORES. Tell me there is no truth to that statement and I will officially make this my last post... PAUSE 4 RESPONSES... Yeah I didn't think so, the needy are irrelevant if you starve those hoes they will learn, if you continue to feed the urge you come to a Octo Mom sized brick wall. The only thing I feed NEEDY muhfuccas is my emotionless DICK oops did I say that, ohh wait this is my blog. From Myspace hoes to Twitter hoes the NEEDY will always be there... Time to weed these simpleton chimps the fuck out. OFFENDED by this post is anyway hit me on Twitter with a "I'm offended" comment @wizzbarz I will respond accordingly... Don't know wizz send the tweet and find out!!! Have a great day lmao

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"Tis the Season"

I hate to say it but it seems its the season for how do you say, "Break Up's" real talk beware the bug is in the air. It almost makes you think a little deeper, with the timing of the break up is it the recession, or is it planned out due to the fact that Christmas is right around the corner. I think about these kinds of things maybe thats just the asshole in me, but then again maybe there is some real truth to it. Whatever the case may be this bug is definitely going around, relationships are dropping faster than J Lo at the AMA's. I know that last comment was wrong but shit its the truth something is going on, take a minute and ask yourself how many of your friends have dropped thier other half these last few months, or are on the verdge of doing so. i mean c'mon son this use to be a season of togetherness, both family wise and relationship wise but i cant help but say it TIMES ARE CHANGING. More and more people are falling out of love and im not talking those fake ass Celebrity bullshit relationships, lowkey thats all publicity but thats another post another time. But seriously im talking about the people you see everyday, that relationship that you tell yourself "they always argue but even through it they look so in love". Well I bet you never thought it would come to a end did you. I know i was one of those people saying "they always argue but it makes making up that much better" smh i was wrong too, PERSONALLY i think its Wendy Williams putting the bug in everybody ear that nigga is the problem for everything. No but in all seriousness if you ask me relationships are failing because we as a people are falling further and further away from the state of reasoning. We are not able to talk about the problems we have so we rush our final judgement before we really know what it is we wanna do. We make mistakes as humans but have almost completely gotten to the point where we truly dont feel there is anything we have done wrong. Our imperfections make us human, but our will to forgive allows us to love... somewhere down the line we need to remember no love not worth working for is worth having, every relationship has their up and down... NO GRUDGE HELD IS WORTH LOSING THE ONE YOU LOVE, LIVE, LEARN, FORGIVE ...NO ONE EVER SAID FORGET

Jump Off Already!!!

Simply put i had enough of these "Celebrity Dick Riders" i mean seriously what the fuck people. How many people, women inparticular do you hear say something like "Trey Songz is my baby daddy" Lmao yall be killing me with that shit, just think about it, -->>YOU<<-- say you want a good man but you call a dude your baby daddy, not your husband but your "baby daddy" (WIZZBARZ DEFINITION OF BABY DADDY: NOT ALWAYS BUT, USUALLY A NIGGA THAT LACKS THE NECESSARY REQUIREMENTS TO BE A GOOD FATHER LOVING BOTH THE MRS. AND THE KIDS... A BROKE BITCH ASS NIGGA) SMH but on the otherhand ladies i see bogus bullshit from yall daily, seriously how many good men will you fuck over due to the previous relationship. Ladies are you not worthy of marriage or is it that the "i want a good man" shit, is just that shit ---> BULLSHIT THAT IS. You know what i got it imma call you HE MA BABY DADDY SCEAMING HOES ---> "Celecky's" cause i swear twitter freaks A.K.A "BECKY" sit there making love to celebs with over 100.000 followers like they see that 1 tweet nonsense, as usual the freaks get no response... So what do the "Celecky's" do they get nastier thinking maybe he is just looking past my tweet because he wants more. SMH all bullshit aside i have come to the conclusion that many people pretty much are "TWEETSTITUTING" and dont realize it. I have followers that send me #twitterafterdark comments in hopes i follow them, people please know i am no damn celeb i dont follow for freaks i follow for laughs, pure 100% crack enttertainment. Truthfully i see it like this FUCK a celebrity...please tell me what they have done to alter your life in a promising way...DONT EVEN ANSWER <--- AUTOMATIC FAIL BITCH... If your offended then perhaps im on my way to becoming the next big thing... MA TWITT FAM KNOW WHATS UP...FUCK A CELEB I #ROAST YALL TOAST "3 CHEERS BITCHES"

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF THIS WAS THE BEFORE PICTURE OF THE WOMAN YOU WERE MADLY IN LOVE WITH?

NOW WOULD YOU STILL HAVE THAT SAME LOVE IF SHE LOOKED LIKE THIS YEARS LATER? IF NOT CAN YOU REALLY SAY YOU LOVED THAT PERSON?

Is He Cheating?

9 times out of 10 your that females claiming you know exactly when your man is cheating. Now lets pause and be realistic for a second. If you knew when a man was cheating you would be selling that knowledge to those dingy, clearly blind females around you correct? Ok then so stop that B.S. Men cheat just like women cheat, now honestly i don't know if women are better at cheating and not getting caught, or if men are just dumber therefore more trusting of you ladies. Whatever the case may be both sexes cheat, but how do you know when they are cheating? LOL well that's simple, many people believe there are signs but truth is signs that works for one does not mean the next is doing the same because you see that identical sign. Truthfully there is no way to know when someone is truly cheating unless you catch them in the act, of pay "CHEATERS". In other words either ruin your relationship by playing "I SPY" or be confident and do you. A good man or woman will do what they wanna do regardless, life is about your happiness if someone is bringing you down cut that hoe loose. Excess baggage is just that baggage no one says you have to travel with baggage, buy new shit when you reach your destination, same concept with men and women. Look at it like this... if you think you have a good relationship don't go fucking it up second guessing yourself. Unless you feel there is a reason A REAL REASON to question your significant other, just keep doing what you have been doing. And if they do slip up and gve you a clear cut reason, well then leave the trash...Like jay-Z said "ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!"

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"Im in there"

I'm in there, did lots of thinking about it but wasn't sure i would actually go through with this blog fantasy. I'm happy to say have no fear Wizzbarz is here, yeah i know gay right? But truth is most of the shit people read is gay along with the shit they see on t.v. and then decide its cool enough to be the so called new fad. I mean WTF for instance "skinny jeans" what the hell is this gay epidemic since when did it become OK to wear your little sisters pants. Seriously people whats next women start wearing male jock straps, or men start taking birth control this shit is bananas. Someone needs to contact the NewBoyz and slap them, then slap their mothers, then slap the next 60 people you see wearing that up surd bullshit. If you don't agree eat a dick, choke on that same dick, then tell Hitler life is better without him cause your for sure going to hell for supporting this bullshit todays society loves to call fashion... Good Night and fuck you I'm WIZZ CATCH ME IF YOU CAN.